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1. A Gentle Word Goes a Long Way: Raising Low-Level Concerns with Your Care Provider

  • Writer: Raaj Purohit
    Raaj Purohit
  • Dec 5, 2024
  • 2 min read

Updated: Feb 28



We all want the best for our loved ones in care, right? And let's be honest, the folks working in care are trying their absolute hardest. The care sector is always changing, regulations are tough, and it's a demanding job. Sometimes, though, little things might not be quite right. What do you do when you have a minor concern? Let's talk about how to approach it in a positive and constructive way.


First things first, remember that a lot of issues can be resolved with a simple chat. Think of it as a friendly heads-up, rather than a formal complaint. For example, maybe your loved one's favourite biscuits haven't been in stock lately, or perhaps you've noticed a slight change in their routine that you're curious about. These are the kinds of things that often get sorted with a quick word.


The Power of a Friendly Chat:

Instead of jumping straight to writing a formal letter, try having a gentle conversation with the staff member directly involved. A casual, "Just a quick one..." approach can work wonders. Explain your concern calmly and clearly, and listen to their response. Often, there's a perfectly reasonable explanation, or they might not have even realised there was an issue.


Keeping the Manager in the Loop:

After you've spoken to the staff member, it's a good idea to let the manager know you've had a chat. A simple, "Just mentioned to [staff member's name] about [briefly describe the concern] so they're aware" will suffice. This isn't about getting anyone into trouble; it's about keeping the manager informed. They can then keep an eye on the situation and identify if any extra training or support might be needed. This keeps a collaborative atmosphere, which is what we all want.


Why a Verbal Handover is Often Best:

For low-level concerns, a verbal handover is usually the most effective approach. It's quick, it's personal, and it keeps things informal. We're all on the same team, after all, and our shared goal is to improve the quality of care for your loved one. Writing everything down can sometimes create a more formal atmosphere than is necessary, especially in the initial stages.


Building Positive Relationships:

Remember, building positive relationships with the care staff is crucial. They're the ones who are looking after your loved one day in and day out. A friendly and collaborative approach will go a long way in ensuring that everyone feels valued and respected.


How Care Finder Assist Can Help:

We understand that navigating these conversations can sometimes feel tricky. If you're unsure how to approach a particular situation, or if you'd like some advice on how to raise your concerns effectively, we're here to help. We can offer guidance on communication strategies and help you build positive relationships with your care provider.


What If Things Escalate?

Of course, there might be times when a verbal handover isn't enough. If you've raised your concerns and they haven't been addressed, we have another article that can help with that.


Ultimately, we're all working towards the same goal: providing the best possible care for your loved ones. By communicating openly and respectfully, we can create a positive and supportive environment for everyone involved.

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